Fathers Day - Spending Time Not Money
June 3, 2008 – 8:53 amMost of us want to buy or do something nice for our dad on fathers day, after all it’s our dad, we want to celebrate him. Doing this without buying into the hallmark holiday attitude of spending a fortune and getting very little for your money can be quite hard to avoid though.
Here are 5 ideas of things for your dad, or do with him that won’t cost a fortune, will show you care, and (hopefully) make him feel good and loved!
1) Cook him a fathers day meal
A really lovely meal that you can share with your dad to show him how much he means to you. This one is really one for all ages, you can make it a bit special by decorating the table, and if it’s mum helping the kids to do this for dad, then get them to join in with the cooking, and maybe make his seat into a thrown with a bit of red cloth and some glitter and sequins you can do a lot and in so many different ways that you can really personalise it.
2) Make him a special moments album
Again another one for any age to do, kids and adults alike can put together a scrap book of events that you as a child and he as dad have shared together using photos and writing little reminders like ‘remember when you took me to play football and we got so muddy mum made us shower in the garden! Didn’t we have fun together!’
3) A personalised photo gift
Lots of the online photo companies now offer lots of things other than straight snap shots, from mugs to mouse mats, posters to placemats. Gather together some pictures of the two of you together and get them turned into a really special personalised gift that he will be able to use over and over again.
4) Take a trip together
why not plan a day out for you and your dad. Maybe he’s a fan of motor cars and you could take him to watch the banger racing, or perhaps he loves the beach, June is a good month for trips to the seaside. There are lots of museums and places of interest to visit up and down the country that don’t cost a fortune to do, and actually putting our regular lives aside and stopping to take time to be with someone we care about is something we don’t do enough of as a nation. (Remember the song by Cat Stevens - Cats in the Cradle!)
5) Have a special photo taken
Not the cheapest option, but a very special one indeed, how about booking a session with a photographer and getting a really good picture of you and your dad taken.
Most of these ideas don’t involve spending lots of money, they do however involve giving your time. The most precious gift we can ever give someone is ourselves. Sounds corney I know, but you think back to your own childhood and think about the memories that really stick in your mind, and 99% of the time you’ll find they involve people and the time you spent doing something with them rather than the gift they bought you!






